I was looking out my bedroom window, as i do often, and wrestle with: are we alone? i saw what seemed to be a star. at first i thought it might have been venus, but it was too large to be venus. then, as if the "people" inside saw me, its big white light turned off. no airplane would be allowed to do that in mid-flight. what was left was a small red light that went over my house and disappeared from view,behind some apartment behind my house. the next time i saw it it was moving from east to west. it passed my field of view and as it passed its big white light went out like before. i have always believed that there were indeed other intelligent and advanced beings out there and this just proved it, for me.